Travel & Hotel

Where should I stay?

We have reserved a discounted room block at the Westin Governor Morris Hotel. Information and booking links can be found on our Travel page

When should I arrive?

Our wedding will be a two day event spread across Saturday 6/26 and Sunday 6/27. If you're joining for the Friday Welcome Party, we recommend arriving Friday 6/25 and checking out Monday 6/28 (3 nights). 

Kids

Can children attend the events?

While we love all the wonderful little ones in our lives, our wedding weekend will be an adults-only celebration. Enjoy yourselves!

Weekend Events

Which events am I invited to?

Your invitation and RSVP page will indicate the events you're invited to. If you are seeing this prior to January 2027, you can consider yourself invited to all events. 

Do I get a plus one?

Your formal invitation and RSVP page will indicate exactly who is invited to each event, including any plus ones. Please check back in the new year when invitations are sent and event RSVPs open!

Indian Wedding Questions

I've never been to an Indian wedding. What should I expect?

We know this may be a first for many of our guests. The ceremony will include a printed guide explaining each ritual and custom, bringing together our shared traditions. Our hope is simply that you enjoy being part of our multicultural celebration.

How long is a Hindu ceremony?

A Hindu wedding ceremony is broken up into a few distinct parts: Arrivals, the Baraat, the Rituals, and the Blessings. Altogether these span about 3 hours in total. Don't worry, there will be breaks, drinks, snacks, and location changes! This will be immediately followed by a "Sangeet" style party. Think of it like a Bollywood night with performances, dancing, and lots of color. If you're curious to learn more, we recommend checking out a Bollywood movie. Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, and Kabhi Kushi Khabi Gum are all classics and some of our favorites.

Attire

What should I wear to each event?

Each celebration has its own style and atmosphere and we encourage everyone to have fun with the themes and dress codes.

Note: For all events, please avoid wearing WHITE.

What should I wear to the Welcome Party? (Fri 6/25)

Our welcome party will have a Dressy Casual/Cocktail Casual Optional dress code. 

Men: Collared shirts, button-downs, or polos; chinos or nice trousers. Blazers are optional. 

Women: Midi or maxi dresses, elevated sundresses, jumpsuits, or nice separates.

What should I wear to the Indian Wedding? (Sat 6/26)

We are so excited to see everyone embrace the multicultural aspects of our wedding and this is the day to show up and show out! If you are comfortable trying something new, we'd love to see you in traditional, modern, or fusion Indian formal wear. We also welcome those who wish to honor Korean, Black, or Native cultures through their attire. 

Men: Kurtas, kurta sets, bandhgalas, Nehru jackets, sherwanis, and Indo-Western or fusion looks are all great options. Feel free to embrace bold colors, patterns, embroidery, and other festive details.

Women: Lehengas, sarees, anarkalis, salwar or sharara sets, and Indo-Western or fusion looks are all welcome. Bright colors, beautiful fabrics, embroidery, embellishments, and statement jewelry are encouraged.


Note: Please do not wear any GOLD or RED base color outfits. Embroidery or accents are ok. 

Below are a few websites to help in your selection:
Kalki Fashion

Lashkaraa

Pernia's Pop Up

**Note when ordering: Indian sizes tend to run small. We recommend getting one size up from your usual. You can always have a tailor take it in, as needed.

What should I wear to the Formal Wedding Day? (Sun 6/27)

For our grand finale, the dress code is Creative Black Tie/Black Tie Optional.

Think glamorous, elevated evening attire—with room to make it your own.

Men: Tuxedos are encouraged, but not required. A dark, well-tailored suit with a dress shirt and tie is equally appropriate. Velvet or patterned dinner jackets, interesting textures, sophisticated colors, and other elevated formal touches are welcome. Dress shoes or formal loafers, please.

Women: Floor-length gowns, formal midi dresses, and elegant cocktail dresses are all welcome. Feel free to embrace rich colors, metallics, embellishments, statement accessories, and fashion-forward silhouettes.

More FAQs to come in 2027